i couldn't agree more with what nightbird said. 
i don't like to gossip either.
as for others perhaps targeting you next to talk about ..here's what works for me-as long as i know who I am it makes no difference what others say about me. yeah, some people could say well it still hurts, but if you know something is not true you can just let it roll off 'yer back. sounds like those people need something to do with their minds, IMHO...heheh.
you can just go and make it a great day for yourself. 
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