(((pixie/leslie)))) what i meant is that if we can use our ability to visualize the safe area, it is a memory we can return to, similar to other memories... when you feel threatened you can imagine yourself in that safe place and it might give you the extra few moments you need to re-center....

drawing others into that space requires sensitive consideration from the others side... if they cannot accept your inner need to feel safe where you are, are they your friend?