kiya... maybe you can talk to t about coming up with a different term that better fits what she means? It seems that everyone has trouble with a term that has become a common term and that has gotten terribly distorted. My T talks about "sense of self" a lot.. and i am thinking our big problem is that what he is talking about is different than my own idea of the term, but the mismatch isn't always obvious....
idk.. just a thought.. just your comment about "not real" boundaries... made me think. Did you tell her what "real" ones were? How are they different?
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