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some people just seem to know automatically how to set boundaries and tell people their needs. Not everyone goes to therapy to learn this stuff, some people just seem to know.
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Yeah - like T. I don't get it either. The way she talked she has solid boundaries. But she already told me she has the same history as I do... so maybe she learned it in therapy too?
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Kiya, I wasn't quite sure about your T's point. Was she trying to tell you that you had not been respectful of your mother's boundaries? And you felt you were, that your mom was just joking around?
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i felt like she was telling me i was not respecting mom's bondaries - then that i didn't have any... ouch. I explained it was a joke, but she then pointed out that that is part of the problem - all boundaries in this house are a joke. T says boundaries are to be negotioated. So are they real or not?
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Kiya, what kind of boundaries do you consider real?
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well, the main one that comes to mind would be that I don't want t and md and the other drs and counselors all talking together about me. *sigh*. That one is real and BIG. And the one i can't have.
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