I dunno anymore... I mean, "boundaries" isn't a psych term, ja? I just don't see why they work in her favor and not in mine. I guess that is why i am so grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr about it.
I do trust her more than most ppl and she does seem to be there often for me.... she even called me tonight after i left her a message about my panic attack and flashback.
I just don't see the difference between my needs and her needs surrounding me. I would prefer T to not confer about me with others. T needs to confer with all the other ppl who work with me. But it is ok for her to have what she wants and not what I want. But I can have other things that are not as important to me. Yet i guess i have to trust that she knows what is best for me?