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Originally Posted by Kiya
You know - this brings up not only a good point, but a realization. T says boundaries are negotionable (i can't even spell it) and yet, it seems her boundaries are walls. But for me, i can barely make any boundaries with her, and those that i really care about are not negotiable - they infringe upon her walls.  |
If someone says a boundary is not negotiable, then you have to decide if that is a fact or not. If it is, then you have to decide how important it is to you, and if important enough, what are you going to do about it? What are you prepared to do to set your own boundary? Can you leave (permanently) if it comes to that?
I know you love these questions...
