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Old Dec 13, 2008, 01:32 PM
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Originally Posted by phoenix7 View Post
Maybe boundaries are the border between what we need from others and what they need from us? meeting somewhere in the middle when they are right?.........
I disagree. You have to set your own boundaries for your own needs and comfort and others have to do the same. If you are setting your boundary with someone else's needs in mind this isn't a healthy boundary. Setting your boundaries and helping others are 2 different things.
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