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Old Dec 13, 2008, 01:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Kiya View Post
Random people approach me in public places. i try all the basics; nod, smile, get a book.

I don't want to be the mean gal
Nodding and smiling will encourage people to approach you.

Meeting your own needs is not being a mean gal. Were you given this message when you were growing up that meeting your needs is bad? I know that this was the message that I got.
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