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Originally Posted by Mouse_
Would you?? I've found firm boundaries work...its if I have weak boundaries that a wall is needed, but I've grown past needing to erect walls..
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My boundaries are flexible as needed. If appropriate I will let someone get very close. If someone is harmful I will protect myself from them with the wall to keep them back. It is whatever you need at the time.
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........
I'm an ISFJ
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