I love that too - it shows what is possible with enough trust on the part of both parties involved... something to look for (if not forward to). I am not sure i will get there with my current t, but she seems like someone with whom it might be possible to have that much honesty with and that level of depth in conversation. Right now we are still in the "mucking through" but she is also teaching me stability through it.
I am always glad you post, pink - i learn a lot from your posts.