that's great pinksoil, I dont think I will ever get to that stage as I dont connect well (geez makes me sound like a two prong plug in a three prong world!) so I am really happy for you.

Its always great to realise that someone actually cares about us - take care P7

ps I have a Non SIB agreement with my old psych (not that he was old!) it goes like this - I tell him I was cutting myself he tells me how dangerous it was - I say but I can look you in the eyes (not somethig I seemed to do often - too afraid of what id see maybe) and tell you that I wont do it again - and he said "of course you can " with a knowing smile - ok I thought I'll show you - so I keep that pic in my head when the urge to cut comes - so far it has worked - adn yes I realise he was using reverse psychology on me - but hey you go with what works - again - happy for you