I am sooooooo not the right one to comment on this after the way I went crazy over just making a phone call - but hey that wont stop me

I think you should do what you feel is right - sometimes we dont know what that is because we cloud the issue with what if's and maybe's - I judged what i should do with my dilema by the way I reacted to others who replied to my post and it helped.

Look deep into your heart and do what you think is right - take care P7