So my current boyfriend was friends with his ex after they broke up and she used to actually be a good friend. So I met her a couple times and she, understandably, hates me and wants nothing to do with me. So there were a few times in the past 4 months where she'll just go psycho on him.... for no reason. Then he tells her to leave him alone and 2 weeks later shes apologizing and calling all the time. So finally he was like "Okay, youre being crazy and youre ruining my relationship (with me) Move on. You had your chance" and was kinda mean to her. So she left him alone. This was before thanksgiving. Well her bday is the day after thanksgiving and she called him and left him a *****y message about how he didnt call her on her bday. He never returned the call. She texted him like a week later asking for her tv back (He had been using it) and offered him a different one that she didn't want. I said absolutely not because I could tell it was just another reason for her to keep in contact with him.

That was like a week ago. And I was with him when he dropped the TV off.... he walked up to the door, set it down and left - wasn't even there a full minute. So I thought "hey, finally everything she has over him is gone!" So then last night she calls him AGAIN! Doesn't leave a message saying that its anything important or that she found out he has something else of hers. Just called.

And you know the worst part? She has a boyfriend! Whom she supposedly is head over heels for but keeps calling her ex? My boyfriend! He never calls her back or answers her calls in the first place but she still calls him. I told him about a month ago that it was either him cut off contact with her or I was gone because she just wanted him back so he cut off contact but now she wont stop harrassing us.

And Im a delivery driver and sometimes I have to deliver to where she works. Now, she has everyone in that store asking me if I did anything to their food?! Everyone there thinks I hate them because of how she talks about me. And Im just sitting back thinking "you need to get a life" because hers is being consumed by me apparently. And she doesn't even know me.

And its not like she wanted him while they were together. She told him that she was interested in another guy and he caught her at her house at like 2 a.m. with another guy he had never even heard of standing in her kitchen and she was joking with him laughing, hitting his chest (obvious flirting). So she doesnt want him while theyre together, but doesnt want anyone else to have him either?

And he ran into one of her friends and this girl says that she has gone crazy on everyone. Her former 'best friend', she got into a huge stupid fight with and now theyre not even talking. I just dont know how to handle this.

It seems like all these women have crushes on my boyfriend and I have never been in this situation before. I trust him when he says he doesnt want them and I know he cares about me. but it still bothers me that his ex just wont take a damn hint! And I don't want to go to her and say something to her because I dont want to stir up anything else but it seems like just ignoring her isn't working. UGH! Has anyone ever dealt with this before? Sorry this is so long.