ECHOES, do you think you will get to a point where you do learn more about your T and are comfortable with it? Or do you think the blank slate approach will continue indefinitely? I know your T is psychoanalytic so doesn't reveal a lot about herself. It might be interesting to discuss your reaction to her "we." She might not even be aware she dropped her blank slate for a moment. Or maybe she did that intentionally.... Maybe it is time for her to be a bit more real.... Scary, I know!