(((((LMo))))) Thanks sweetie, but I'm far behind you because girlfriend - you really rock!

Your friend Sam

Kyle, in the end, all we can do is to offer you advice, but it falls upon you to do whatever it is that is right for you.

You strike me as being a nice young man, a little navie perhaps, but then again, who among us all that hasn't been at some time?

I think from reading your last post that you realize what is best for you, and then again ? You stated, "SHE can start it back up again.", and that makes me think you would take her back if she came to you? The question I just have to ask you, is this: WHY???????????

I'm sure that there are things about yourself and her that you haven't told us, and that's ok. Relationships are a two-way street and I'm not expecting either of you to be perfect. But, the one thing everyone should expect of any person so close in their life is honesty. Without it - you have nothing.

I look at love and can't say I understand it. And while I believe love at first sight can happen (although it doesn't happen often), true love - the kind that burns and grows into something so binding that one couldn't see living without the other, that love, it grows in time and is not something born at first sight. Look around you at the old people - people whom have been married and together for 40 years or more. These people have that true love - the kind that no matter how many times they may disagree or get on each others nerves - they cling to each other as if their lives depend upon it. That's true love, and it comes from time together, of being honest and loving and needing.

Again - Best of luck to you.

Your friend Sam