((((( Kim ))))))
That surely can be a difficult way to live. I'm sorry you are having to go through it. I think you are doing the right thing in standing up for what you will and will not tolerate. I know that living with folks that have no consideration for themselves or others makes for a rough time. I would say you are much better off not having a "friendship" with this woman anyways...as you say, drama drama drama....who the heck needs it

Life is difficult enough without making it more difficult.
I do hope you find some peace very very soon.

sabby