i agree with trish. i wouldnt let any preteen use a webcam without me at least knowing who their talking to. i dont see the problem with one, but you should be able to come and go and know who theyre talking to. i understand you dont want to butt into their convos, but it depends on how much you and your child communicate. if you can trust them enough, i think you could probably do it. but you know how much you trust your child not me.

personally i worry about preteens on the internet, but thats probably because i know wht kinda people u can find there. iiits not always that bad, but yeh.

anyway um. i cant really talk, cuz im not a parent, but yeh :P

sorry if i annoyed anyone.

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