I'm so glad that you feel safe enough to let us sit with you through this...to hold your hand while you sit...as much as we can.
Oh, how I understand that pain, but I do promise you that it won't always hurt this much. If it gets entirely too much to bear, please remember to use your skills to get the distance you need for a time. It's important to do sometimes, OK? We have our skills for a reason, and healing doesn't equal not using them at all in my book...so use them as you need to, if not how you'd "like to".
My prayer is a measure of peace for you this night.
KD
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