Well, tonight was the memorial service for Bonnie. It was very sad. Her husband sat with our group after the service (during the reception). He voiced what I had been thinking: he is glad that all this stuff is done so he can get on with grieving and missing Bonnie. I thought I was the only one feeling that way, but apparently not. Tomorrow will be his first day without things to take care of. I mean, I know he still has to go through all her stuff, but I don't think he's ready to do that yet. He just seemed relieved and grateful that the official mourning is over. I'm glad too.