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Originally Posted by sunrise
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I'm not sure even what the question means have you talked about sex with your T. Do the things I wrote count? Or do people talk about very graphic stuff?
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Yeah, the things you wrote count! I was being deliberately vague in my question just to see the kind of responses I would get, since I just have no idea.
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Originally Posted by Simcha
Holy crap velcro, your T actually ASKED if you had any FANTASIES??????
I'd be all sorts of freaked out to the extreme if my T asked me that. I don't even think if it matters if my T is a guy or would be a girl, any way you look at it, that question SUCKS!
If my T asked me that, I wouldn't be able to resist asking him in my own smartarse way if he had any fantasies he would like to share with me... LOL.
Yeah, I have no problem throwing back shite at my T if he overreaches.
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Well, she didn't ask me totally randomly
I was telling her how sometimes I think i'm asexual, and she goes "No, I don't think that...I think you can repress enough to shut it off, though. Do you have any fantasies?" To which I just looked at her uncomfortably and was like "uhh...no"
A big part of my issues is a total avoidance of relationships/sex. I'm almost 28
, never had sex, and haven't even tried dating in about 4 years..and haven't dated anyone at all in about 5ish...haven't dated anyone seriously in like...gulp....almost 9. AHHH.