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Originally Posted by velcro003
Yeah, the things you wrote count! I was being deliberately vague in my question just to see the kind of responses I would get, since I just have no idea.
Well, she didn't ask me totally randomly  I was telling her how sometimes I think i'm asexual, and she goes "No, I don't think that...I think you can repress enough to shut it off, though. Do you have any fantasies?" To which I just looked at her uncomfortably and was like "uhh...no"
A big part of my issues is a total avoidance of relationships/sex. I'm almost 28  , never had sex, and haven't even tried dating in about 4 years..and haven't dated anyone at all in about 5ish...haven't dated anyone seriously in like...gulp....almost 9. AHHH. |
Ahhhh okay.
Well I'd still feel really uncomfortable.
Do you have a specific reason behind your lack of desire to have a relationship? Don't go into details if you don't want. I just wanted to know if you had a history that was preventing you from now, or if it was a hormonal imbalance thing.
I have this cousin who has a low testosterone count... before he went to the doctor, his wife thought it was lack of desire. It was more like lack of hormones...