o ya. and you ask how far my mom and sister lives. they live about a hour away from me or less. just a subway to my house. i live in mississauga and they live in toronto...even when i live about 20 mins from them they still made a big deal....when you have outsiders seeing how they treat me and now my mom treat me then makes you wonder and when you have other family members saying to you, well you know how this family is makes you wonder why your mom had you. it hurts but i guess i have to do what everyone is saying move on with my life and my friend is my kids now..i just hope and pray they see this and it isn't too late.