First off, before you do anything, why do are you wanting to orgasm?

If you're at least enjoying the sex, you should probably ask yourself if you really care if you climax. Don't be doing it just because HE would feel better about himself, do it because you're like "omgah that'd be coool"

If you still want one I'd talk to your doctor about your pills.

Also, no worries. Since you're in a committed relationship you should be having sex to express something. Just make sure you're loving the emotions that are present, and that it at least feels good. Do that and you're ahead of a lot of women.

Does anyone else think it's kind of disgusting that women have to be like "broken in" that's kind of gross. Just saying. Not in a "it's not fair" way but more in like a "errrm...if it takes so much experience are we suppose to have them?" kind of way.