I posted this in sexual forum but felt it might do better in the mens forum i'd like it in both.....because its a big issue for me.

here is what i said

So I have a myspace, I constantly stay on their searching for "swingers" or sexual women age 35+ who want sex from younger guys or at least would do it. I've never had sex, in fact well most of you know I hate it, because of what porn has influenced me into thinking. Now this. God what do I do, I mean some of these women seem willingly.....not to mention I've been considering getting on adult websites posting revealing pictures of myself in hope of.......gosh I have 2 minds and I hate them both......help!