I've been trying to communicate with him and he thinks I am again, being controlling, treating him like a child, and always questioning everything he is doing. How do I communicate with him without him telling me that I'm just being insecure? Even when I ask him a question about work or whatever, he always assumes that I'm asking in a round about way about this other girl. (Maybe I am, but I don't mean to be.) We have had a HORRIBLE week and I just can't figure out how to make this better.