If a person did actually decide they had a problem and really should do something, what are the options for help? There are a number of reasons why the regular routes wouldn't work. Number 1...very small comunity where everyone knows everyone. Number 2...close family that would notice ones absence, never mind about two being absent. 3...Nobody, and I meen nobody knows there could be a problem. 4...known as upstanding citizens in this community and this would cause a lot of problems if it became public knoledge.One could go on and on. Basiclly, I guess I want to know if there is any imfo about this subject if a person decided to really try to go it alone. I don't know if this makes any sense but this is the first time I have ever ...whatever