Moonkin I know it feels that way, but I'm sure you know she cares about you. I was at T today and he was saying something to me. He pointed out that what he was saying "came from a place of caring". For some reason, they care about us . Please stay strong and let us know how you're holding up. Maybe you can put up one of those calenders in your signature that says how many days are left for T to come back. I enjoyed seeing those when Ts went on summer vacations. It helped!