We had a nasty conversation today. I wanted to go to Canada with him to visit his family this xmas. He had said as much a couple weeks ago on the phone saying "I wish I could take you to Canada but you don't have a passport," and later saying that he'd put in his email that I "might" be coming. Now he got angry at me and ignored every attempt I made to start the discussion again in a rational way- I basically told him that my passport had arrived today, after I went and got one after our discussion. He'd say "We already discussed that and I don't want to talk about it again." Basically he said he's met my family, but I can't meet his because they would frown on me because we're not married (but they know who I am) AND then he went on to say that he's moving back to Canada at some point and there is no way in the world I could go with him. So he's back himself into a mental corner and refuses to talk to me now! The best part, though, is that he'd like our relationship to stay- as he put it- in this box where I want it to be "up here". He's just happy with me as a girlfriend and hey- have sex, 3 years already, no reasonable end in sight and then he moves off to Canada in 3 years or whatever. Nice. I can't believe I got attached to someone like this! I take his daughter out shopping and let her drive my car, took her to the secretary of state to renew her driving permit, etc. and sometimes we do stuff with my kids too. Then he has the gaul to tell me something about my version of love is infatuation not love... preaching to me. So either he breaks up with me or I break up with him. THREE YEARS!!! I can't just wait around and have sex with someone until he decides he is going to move to another country. What's the point???