would have to agree with ujaz.
it's ok to tell - besides, it might save you from a lot of hurt that comes from keeping too much inside.
to add a bit of humour - does this sound like him?
http://www.okcupid.com/personality?type=DBLD&g=1&o=1
i hope not.

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