Us too--except my mom, who lives 6 miles away, thinks that I, with bald tires on my minivan, can make it down unplowed roads to the cowpath that they live on, and up their looooong driveway to bring the girls to her. Umm, hellooooo, dad owns a 4 wheel drive pickup, a 4 wheeler and a snowmobile--come get them! I am so sorry you are so stressed right now. Your boyfriends actions are definately odd--and rude! Sending you warm hugs and thoughts.