I'm reading a really good book, http://www.amazon.com/This-Year-Will.../dp/0767920082, This Year I Will. . . and the author's (M.J. Ryan) husband is discussed and how he got rid of his marijuana habit. She got rid of anger and her smoking and talks about them and had several clients who drank and worked on that and she discusses how they did it. But you might want to read a book like that; it's general enough that even someone seeing it wouldn't know what specific behavior you were trying to change.