I've been wanting to get my husband to just tie me up or blindfold me, that's it. I have "hinted" at it but never really asked him. One of these days...maybe I will. I wish he would just take more control sexually anyway, I kinda get sick of being the one who is always in control.

And I wanted to re-iterate what someone said - the part about S&M in the DSM-IV is only if it is NOT consensual, basically. Like S&M style rape.