If it makes you feel any better, I'm not getting T a card
Like you said, everything in our therapy feels so genuine - not generic - and I just don't "feel" like getting him a card right now, so I'm not. If I felt like it, I would. I'm probably bring him some Christmas goodies I'm making, just because he seems weirdly excited by food.
Just do what feels right. Maybe buy him some socks to go with the cheese cube shirt?
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Originally Posted by pinksoil
Now I have the urge to get my T a holiday card. Ugh. I never gave him a card before. What the hell do I write? "Happy holidays and a wishing you a good New Year!!!" NO. It would feel like a moment of being completely generic, which does not fit into our therapy, even for the sake of the holidays. Also, if I get him a card that says more than just "Merry Christmas!" it would feel strange because everything I have ever given him has been my creation. Maybe I will commit myself to the challenge of finding a card with words that really connects to the way I feel (watch me end up getting him some stupid, cheesy card that plays Jingle Bells when he opens it). Oy.
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