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Old Dec 20, 2008, 04:25 PM
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hi nice to meet you. i am sitting in the chat room with you right now i am getting close to being in the same place with my mother. am glad you have found some peace on that front and are planning a nice christmas for parts. sounds like you've done some good work
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He said that we can email as MUCH as we want (100 times per day). Believe in this - it is challenging fears about being punished. It is okay to be seen. You are not a nuisance. "Too much" simply means exploration, not punishment/withdrawal. Trust in him.

Not looking at him is about keeping aspects of self hidden/secret. We know that is not the healthy choice. Keep working on this - you will get there.

Accept there are parts. Be kind and gentle with them. Working with parts and feelings is the key to happiness. We have been happy before when listened to them and accepted them and were open to feelings. Write in your journal - it is safe to do so.
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