Those are *stereotypes* about BPD and nothing more. People with borderline are not inherently "bad" or "toxic" just because they have borderline personality disorder. It's a label, and using it to describe ANY person is going to be a very *limited* view of who that person really is. If your T is smart, they won't treat your diagnosis, they will treat *YOU* as a person.

Best of luck to you...

Angela