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Originally Posted by wayward muse
I can't figure if i'm straight or bi. I find myself mildly attracted to girls, but i don't really want to be with them sexually. Kissing, under the bra, fine, but anything more and i'm not really interested. Not against it either. Still a virgin, me and my boyfriend keep trying to find an opportunity to end that, and we have phone sex regularly, which i like. Am completely attracted to guys, no question there. But would rather see a naked girl than a naked guy. Opinions please.
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An easy and popular answer is that there is a spectrum. No one is completely homosexual or heterosexual but rather there is a spectrum from one end to the other and we all fall somewhere on that line.
The answer that should be given additionally, however, is that we are ourselves, nothing less and no more. There is no reason to define, or label, ourselves. We can be whomever we want to be, and be with whomever we want. As long as you are honest with your partner(s) about what you want and what you are doing, there should be no limits. Be yourself, and the rest will fall into line naturally.