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kiya's advice is good. i would suggest that you explain to husband that the kinder and nicer he can be while doing this the better it will work. if he sounds rough or angry it will frighten and alts may hide even more. they need to feel safe to switch when requested. that's all i know, i'm not up on doing this since i mostly work on triggers except with my T.
hugs, leslie and pixies
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