kerria,

sweetie no one here hates your parts. It makes me sad to hear that some of you hate your own parts.

sometimes being here in a support community it can be challenging because there is a balance in what is for the whole of the community and what is for the individual safety of members. I can understand how it could feel if an administrative action 'took away my words'. I'd be hopping mad! In those moments I'm not able to understand the larger picture of community and safety of community but instead get stuck in the 'how could this be happening to me?!' incredulity of it all.

Then after the passage of some time I'm better able to put the situation into context and understand that any removal of my posts was due to administrative actions that had nothing to do with my posts personally. If no one has contacted me with a PM regarding my posts then I assume that my posting style is okay within guidelines.

Please don't hate yourself/selves for admin. actions that have nothing to do with your words!! Really sweetie!

Slowly untie those knots and take your time in getting back here. PM with people until you feel like posting again. Do what you need to for your safety.

We're here and will be so whenever you're ready to c'mon back.
fondly,