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Old Dec 21, 2008, 08:34 AM
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Originally Posted by Sled Chick View Post
Thanks for ypur answers guys. I am still hanging in there. Managed to wrap a few presents today but still feel pretty crappy. To answer a few questions. I am extremely shy...except for when I play sax or keyboards on stage. I have been reading this forum for a year befpre I joined. So I can't see me getting very far in a group setting. Does my hubby use?...We have been married 28 years . We have both been using for ten years but he is way more carefull than me as he has heart problems. He's pretty grumpy yesterday and today though. He will not do anything without me so he's suffering a little too. He is normally a big teddy bear but today is not a good day. I even feel stupid sitting here writing to people I have never met...and telling them stuff I have never even told myself. But if I go join hubby in the living room at thios time of the day, he's going to start expressing his boredom and what could we do??? Eventually it will come down to " Do you want to go for a drive" And we all know where that would be to. sigh....
Sled Chick, I hope you feel better today...

Thank you for continuing to share with us. Jmo, but if you've been reading the forum for a year, you really are aware of the problem..."coming out" is a very big step towards making changes.
Don't feel stupid for sharing your concerns here. An online community like PC offers anonymity and it may lead you to be more comfortable with the thought of meetings. Newcomers at my meetings are encouraged to talk *if* they so desire. It is not a requirement. Sometimes it takes a fair amount of listening before a person can share anything.
It's difficult to talk about these things whether it's in "public" (a meeting) or online. Either way, though, you are getting fear and frustration out of your heart bit by bit.

My sincere good wishes for the coming days to be better,
Cap
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