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It sounds like whoever is out needs something and needs your husband to give it to them. Perhaps it is something a father figure would give a child that the alter out didn't receive. If that doesn't help, then getting a bigger (in age) alter to come out, or one who is an adult, if you as host can't come out, needs to come out and deal with things. That doesn't negate the fact that the alter's needs need to be addressed. Talking it over with your therapist, and finding ways to talk about it with your husband and suggesting he try to talk to the alter and find out what they need may decrease the alter's need to be out and causing conflict with your husband. I hope you find some rest this season. It could be the season is causing this alter to be out and in need. Just a few thoughts to think about. Crys
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