I honestly have no idea what's going on with my sister. She is my only sister, lives just 20 minutes away from me. I've tried to call her several times in the past week to plan for Christmas. I finally reached her today, and asked about her plans, as I was looking forward to seeing her and her two daughters, exchanging gifts, etc. She was short with me, saying she was "going out to the grocery store." I just got short answers, and pauses of silence. She is not in financial difficulty, that's for sure, so I felt confident in asking, "Well, do you want to get together to exchange gifts?" and told her I had just been out and bought gifts for her and her two daughters. Just ambiguous replies, and no definite answer on when we could get together. I told her that my daughter and the twin grandsons would be here on Tuesday night only, and they could come here...again just a maybe. I have no idea what's going on, but it makes me upset! I'm feeling hurt and even angry, and like I imposed upon her by calling her and asking about her holiday plans. Now, so angry, I feel I will not contact her again regarding holiday plans, and even not answering the phone if she calls! Phew..anger makes me ill!
Patty
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