If she has expressed a need to go to a different therapist than the one you see , she has a reason, and I would strongly suggest that you do it. She loves you, and from what I read supports you, now she has a need that you can support. My husband NEVER understood my illness and never tried too, until AFTER I was panic free and facilitating the Support Group for PAD - he attended every meeting (the outside world thinks he is a saint now). I would have been thrilled for him to have gone to therapy with me, or ask me to go to a therapist WITH him - it would have shown me he cared. You "caught" a good one Chitown, dont let her off that hook !!!