No, he can't, and no, I don't. I haven't got money. The legal aid places don't do anything either. Plus, I am afraid of taking him to court. I am afraid that all the stress and hell it will bring could make me very suicidal. The reactions I have to His Royal @ssness emails lately have been depressive--with those type of thoughts. I do better between, but it only takes talk of my kids to bring me down. I am okay for now, but I know it's something to watch. My daughter's T is rightfully concerned about me, too. I admitted how I feel in a voice mail to him recently.