I don't know how a guy can be so stupid and inconsiderate for 40+ years! This is by his own admission today. He knows how his lack of attention and lack of consideration has hurt me over the years, and yet it continues. He said it's just the way he is. I said...."and you aren't about to change" He says he will try again to change. I know that his efforts to do better will last for a few days....period. grrrrrrrr.