thank you both, luce and martina.

it's been something that's been on my mind lately as one of my friends recently got a bpd diagnosis, and now i'm scared she might become aggressive. i'm trying to remind myself that she's never been aggressive in the past, and the diagnosis doesn't change that.

thank you so much for your input. i feel a bit better knowing it was just 'him' and not a whole population of people with an illness. maybe in the new year i will gather up enough courage to talk to my pdoc about what happened.