Hangingon...it sounds like a really difficult session, I commend you for how you handled it and how you stuck to your mission of informing her of the "break" despite all the difficult feelings. I hope that the new T will be able to provide the empathy, containment, and support this T has not been able to. As some wise folks here have written, it's all about the relationship with the T. I hope that the pain you're experiencing right now will ease as you continue your work with the new T.