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Biscuit haven’t you ever met someone that you thought was beautiful then got to know them and realized that they we’re as attractive have you thought they were? It works in the reverse as well.
I met one of the most beautiful women that I’d ever seen in real life. Once I got to know her I realized that she was she was narcissistic, rude, condescending, and not very intelligent. She’d used her looks to get through life. It got to the point that I no longer saw anything but that evil smile she had when she was particularly mean to someone. To date she’s been married 4 times.
On the other hand, I am ashamed to say, I met a man that was the ugliest person that I’d ever seen. His facial features looked like he’d been in some form of an accident and he had the worst skin I’d ever seen. He was kind, thoughtful, funny and intelligent. Once I got to know him I didn’t see those things that seemed so unattractive before. He ended up marrying a beautiful woman and has been married about 20 years.
There’s nothing wrong with having high standards. But when you meet the right person, you are not going to care what other people think. I just hope you give her a chance, some men and women are late bloomers.
Remember also, beauty fades. You cannot build a relationship a meaningful long term relationship on looks.
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I've been married for 24 years and have four wonderful children.
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