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Cleverclove have you thought about marriage counseling? I cannot think of anything worse than a husband using your issues against you. Perhaps he doesn’t know what he sounds like. Tape him yelling at you and bring it up later when you’re both calm. Let him know that this behavior is unacceptable and you will no longer tolerate it. Even if he’s not screaming at his daughter, he’s showing her that it is acceptable for her future husband to be verbally abusive to her. Try reminding him of that. Next time he goes off, ask him how he’d feel if he over heard someone speaking to his daughter in that manner.
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I've been married for 24 years and have four wonderful children.
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