ya know tomi......i don't really care if i'm addicted to the site or the people here,and i think its both for me.....the reason i come here is that once in a while someone like yourself....writes something that hits the nail on the head for me...i know that there is someone else out there going through what i'm going through...and that i'm not alone......i've been hollering "STOP" through my tears for some time now.....and tomi..you may be the only person who knows what i mean.....