Yes AG, it hurts. If someone forgives and is willing to move on, there is closure to the bad situation and a fresh start. If someone hurls insults at you and continues to rehash the problem, that hurts too, but at least they are communicating still and that means hope. But when someone just completely ignores you, that's a special kind of hurt because to know they don't care enough to respond at all means that you are meaningless to that person and not worth the effort. I know that special kind of hurt by ppl who are suppose to care about me the most. I can empathize with you honey, but you can't dwell on it, you can't base your self-worth on it and you can't continue to beat your head against a brick wall. There comes a point when we just have to take all that was good, kind, sweet and loving about that relationship and move on. You can continue to love them from a distance, only wishing them well, forgiving them and even pray for them. Put the past behind and move into new and more fulfilling relationships. I'm here for you. TgrsPurr. xo